This has been one of the worst weeks ever I think. Here's what has happened (and why I think I'm cursed).
Sunday: Hungover. Tired. Totally behind on work. Still somewhat pissed about the fact that some asshole fucked up my sideview mirror. I notice Midnight (our 22 year old cat) is not acting normally. At one point I found him in the bathroom sleeping on the floor which is not his usual place to sleep. He was hard to wake up and seemed lethargic. He wasn't interested in eating and just wanted to drink water. A lot of water. Now, having had a dog that had diabetes, I know this is not a good sign. I manage to get him to eat a little tuna fish but he still doesn't seem quite right. I decide to take him to the vet the next day.
Monday: After school I race home and pick up Midnight. We go to the vet and the news is far from good. He has kidney failure. His body temperature is low. Really low. Not good low. He is dehydrated AND he's 22. The vet says that they can give him IV antibiotics to help with the dehydration, but whenever she's seen a cat with a body temp that low, it doesn't end well. She says they can try some things, but at most he really only has a month to six weeks to live. I was afraid of this...I asked the vet what she, in all honesty, recommended. She said it might be best to put him to sleep. I called Husband and we discuss the situation. We decide that the kindest thing to do is to put him to sleep. Husband and Wife head out to Ann Arbor to be there. Jon came to the vet's to offer his support too. It was so hard...I think one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. The vet was really nice though, not condescending, friendly but not overly perky (as would not be appropriate for the situation).
Remember too, my parents are in Germany. I called them to let them know what was happening and it was heartbreaking to hear my dad cry. They both agreed though this was the right thing to do for Midnight.
So, the plan then is for me and Husband to go home and bury Midnight. Wife will follow us to the house and Jon had to go home and take care of Fina. As Jon is leaving the parking lot, his car makes a horrible noise and the driver's side wheel is at a really wrong angle. We all get out of our cars to see what happened and it is not good. The front axle has broken and the wheel is off. Wife calls AAA to get his car towed and Husband and I head home to bury Midnight.
Jon and Wife get to the house and tell us the car has been taken to a local dealer. The car has to be junked at this point, so now Jon is out a vehicle. Husband and I bury Midnight in the woods behind our house and, though I'd been relatively ok when they actually put him to sleep (had a meltdown prior to that but held it together for the actual deed), having to put poor Mr. M in his little grave and then put dirt on top of him broke my heart. I bawled my eyes out. It was awful.
Back inside the four of us decide we should probably eat something as it is now after 8pm. Husband and Wife take off before me and Jon to the local Chinese place. As I'm closing the garage door it stops and seems to be at a funny angle. I think maybe something has just gotten jammed and we just need to move it. Turns out, the garage door broke. Jon manages to get the door down and, at this point, I say fuck it. I am NOT worrying about the garage door on top of everything else. It can be fixed when my parents get home. I don't bloody care anymore.
I slept horribly that night and felt emotionally hungover the next day. It was so hard to make it through school, but I somehow did.
Now we get to Wednesday...I get an email from Jon while I'm at work that the car dealer wants his car off the lot and they are charging him a storage fee every day it's there. Jon needs me to drive him to the dealer and take care of this. Luckily, when we do get there, they decide not to charge him. Now it's an issue of where to move the car so Charity Motors can pick it up. My house is around the corner, so that's the logical place. I call AAA and we get it towed for free to the house, so that was good. What began as a potentially rotten situation actually ended up ok, so that was good. Since he'd had a rather stressful day, I offered to cook for him-so we went to his place, I cooked curry (yum), we drank wine and watched the Tenacious D movie. It was a really good night and easily the highlight of the thus far fairly shitty week. However, I didn't get home till after 1am and was a wreck this morning. It was worth it though:)
Today was ok despite being horrifically tired. Tomorrow is Friday and that is a really good thing. I'm having Jon, Husband and Wife over for dinner tomorrow. The weather is supposed to be nice so I'm grilling tostadas, making margaritas and we're going to do a little relaxing after the week we've all had. I'm pretty excited about tomorrow actually. Made an expedition to Meijers to get everything and I'm feeling good about it.
I am SO glad tomorrow is Friday. What a week...
I miss Midnight. It's so weird without him. Poor guy :(
Peace out, Starving Nachos.
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